You can’t fake your way to confidence.
It’s not something you can manifest by good thoughts alone.
Confidence is a byproduct of taking action that produces results which helps build confidence.
The more you achieve, the more you succeed, the more your confidence grows.
In a way, confidence is very much like a bucket.
It can be filled, but it can also be depleted.
What Fills the Confidence Bucket?
Perfecting your skills
Increasing your knowledge
Making money
Saving money
Growing your money
Overcoming obstacles and pitfalls
Overcoming failure
Navigating around potential obstacles and pitfalls
Solving problems
Surrounding yourself with positive, upbeat people
Surviving unexpected, bad consequences
Positive self-talk
Having good daily habits
Writing down your victories and successes
Making decisions
Stop making excuses
Stop comparing yourself with others
Hard work
Being productive
What Depletes the Confidence Bucket?
Procrastinating
Inactivity/Laziness
Being unproductive
Time wasters like TV, the Internet, Facebook, etc.
Lack of goals
Not pursuing goals
Making excuses
Indecision
Envy
Surrounding yourself with negative people
Quitting on dreams, goals, problems, obstacles
Focusing on your mistakes and failures
Having bad daily habits
Being selfish
Giving into failure
Losing money
Negative self-talk
Too much debt
If you lack confidence it is because your Confidence Bucket is depleted.
You need to fill it up in order to gain confidence.
When it comes to confidence you cannot “act as if”.
Building confidence requires daily effort!
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